If the Truth Be Told
By Phyllis Hooten
Although Valentine’s Day is most commonly thought of when considering
February holidays, another one is Presidents’ Day. Two presidents
celebrated on this holiday are George Washington and Abraham Lincoln.
Another commonality these two former commanders in chief possess
besides February birthdays is that, according to popular opinion, they
are considered to have been very honest. While honesty is a valuable
attribute for any type of leader, it is such an assurance as believers
that we are loved so deeply by the God that can be no other way but to
be honest.
Throughout the Bible there are passages highlighting His
honesty. For instance, we are told in Hebrews 6:18 “….it is impossible
for God to lie…” Words from the LORD are described as “flawless” in 2
Samuel 22:31. We are assured of His honesty in Numbers 23:19 “God is
not human, that He should lie, not a human being, that He should
change His mind.” Another scripture emphasizing His honesty is Luke
1:37 “For no word from God will ever fail.” We are reminded of how
solid and unmovable His word is in Mark 13:31 “Heaven and earth will
pass away, but my words will never pass away.”
Additionally, we are reminded His Honesty is irrefutable
through several recorded events in the Bible. One is the birth of
Isaac, years after God promised Abraham in Genesis 17:4 “As for me,
this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of nations.”
Other events include the numerous words shared by prophets in the Old
Testament foretelling of Jesus’s birth and time on this earth. There
were hundreds of years between the prophesies and the events
occurring. Micah 5:2 identifies Bethlehem as the place of Jesus’s
birth. In Zechariah 9:9 we are told “Do not be afraid, Daughter Zion,
see, your king is coming, righteous and victorious, lowly and riding
on a donkey’s colt”. Then many centuries later the account of Jesus
being greeted by a large crowd waving palm branches as He came into
Jerusalem is shared in John 12: 12-15. The piercing of His side at
the crucifixion (John 19:34) is described in Isaiah 53:5: “But he was
pierced for our transgressions….”
Appreciating honesty as one of the incalculable attributes of
our LORD encourages us to be truthful when approaching Him. This means
being honest with the Lord when feeling angry, disappointed, sad,
resentful, or other downbeat emotions. Psalm 139:2 “You know when I
sit and when I rise, you perceive my thoughts from afar” indicates God
is well aware of how we feel even if we are not openly expressing it.
Honestly sharing our hurts and burdens with the LORD can be the start
of receiving healing from Him. We can do this with confidence as
Matthew 6:8 reminds us “…for your Father knows what you need before
you ask Him.”
The account of Elijah’s honesty with the Lord in 1 Kings 19:9-
18, when he had fled from the evil Jezebel, provides additional
rationale for being truthful with the Lord. He shared how he felt
isolated, rejected, and persecuted by his enemies despite being a
faithful and courageous servant of the LORD. The LORD in turn
provides him very clear directions about what his next actions were to
be and also assures him he was not alone, for there were 7,000
faithful followers left in Israel. Therefore, approaching Him with
honesty and not hiding under the pretense that all is fine may result
in being released from falsehoods, being given guidance, and
lightening our burdens.
Finally, because we are loved so perfectly by the LORD whose
character can be nothing but honest, persuades us to always be honest
in our relationships with others. Honoring our commitments is one way
to reflect this. If we agree to do something whether it is meeting
up with a friend, volunteering to serve at church, or taking on an
assignment for work, unless there are extenuating circumstances we
want to as James 5:12 tells us “…let your yes be yes….” Seeking the
Lord for guidance before agreeing to fulfill an obligation can be
vital to helping us make an honest commitment.
There are several other considerations for the importance of
honesty in relationships with others. One is that when there is lying
is a relationship, trust is eroded. If that is not a good enough
reason, Proverbs 19:9 reminds us, “A false witness will not go
unpunished, and whoever pours out lies will perish.” While many
believers avoid lying, there may still be some issues with being
totally truthful with others. For instance, when dealing with
challenging people and/or difficult situations with someone close to
us, we may deny that we are feeling offended, angry, disappointed,
and/or resentful. Instead of sharing our true feelings, we make such
statements as: “All is fine”; “No worries” or “No, I am not – angry,
disappointed, upset, etc.-“. With some time and distance away from the
person or situation, we may indeed feel things are fine and be able to
move on. However, we may find that as time passes we remain focused on
that challenging person or difficult situation and that those downbeat
feelings are clinging to us. If so, it is time to seek the LORD to ask
what our next steps need to be. The LORD may be calling us to have a
difficult but honest and heartfelt conversation with someone so that
honest feelings can be shared. This can lead to a wonderful healing
and cleansing. Through seeking Him, this type of conversation could be
described as in Proverbs 25:11 “Like apples in gold in settings of
silver, is a word spoken at the proper time.”
Through being honest in our relationships we can be as Paul
shares in 2 Corinthians 5:20 “We are therefore ambassadors for Christ,
as though God were making an appeal through us; we beseech you on
behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.” In contrast, there can be
negative consequences when someone who says they are Christian is
found to be dishonest. At the very least, this can be very confusing
for someone who does not yet have a solid relationship with Christ. At
the worst, it could become a stumbling block for those in need of
salvation.
So whether your plans to celebrate Presidents’ Day include
enjoying a three day weekend, ignoring it or eating a big piece of
cherry pie to perpetuate the myth of our first president chopping
down a fruit tree, may we all take time to reflect on the attribute of
honesty. We can celebrate we are loved so deeply by the LORD, knowing
that every word He speaks is true. Also, in the way we relate to the
LORD and others, may that old saying, “If the truth be told’ be an apt
description of us.
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