Angel Tag
Jennifer Rova
Our world revolves around
an ever circling set of
circumstances,
behaviors and choices.
Some of the circumstances
are dictated to us by our
parents, some by
the decisions of others,
and some for a reason not
immediately
evident. Behaviors are
acquired through parental
direction, social
rules, religious
education, experiences
and an accumulation of
skills.
Choices are different.
God gave us free will. He
allows us and wants
us to act responsibly,
morally correct, and with
intelligence. A
decision to do nothing is
one choice and it is the
often the easier
decision. The other
choices require
exercising a system of
reasoning
and factoring in
emotions: right versus
wrong, helpful versus
hurtful,
take an immediate reward
or save for a more
reliable future. Some
choices have long lasting
implications in our
lives, like which job to
take, whether or not to
move across the country,
which medical
treatment for cancer is
the best, or whom to
marry. Other choices
provide minimal impact.
Do I want to go to a
movie or to a concert?
Swim or walk on the
treadmill? Travel to
France or Greece? We make
dozens of choices every
day because God gave us
free will. We use our
set of beliefs and
knowledge to direct us in
our choices.
All choices have
consequences, however. On
the ABC television program
“Wheel of Fortune,” a
spin of the wheel
determines your fate. It
allows you to guess a
letter or lose all your
money. Our wheel of
fortune or circle of life
as human beings is
comprised of tragedy and
joy. We buried my brother
this week and our
daughter is expecting a
baby. Both incidents
involved choices by those
participating. Both
involved specific
circumstances and have
long lasting consequences. My
brother made the choice
to vacation in Jordan
and, while sightseeing,
suffered a heart attack.
That led to a fall into a
rocky gully
resulting in an
accidental death. The
prospective parents made a
decision that will affect
other choices in their
lives. One decision
ended in tragedy and the
other will end in joy.
Both have consequences.
Life is a circle. It is a
circle of choices and of
constantly
revolving life and death.
A brother dies and a
grandchild is born.
“Angel Tag” some call it.
I call it my circle of love.
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