_ Delight or Doubt
Phyllis Hooten
The manner which we conduct ourselves in our daily lives is described
as our baseline. As believers, our desire is having a baseline that
delights in the LORD and remains stalwart in our faith. In Romans
4:20-21, this description of Abraham is appealing: “20 No unbelief
made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in
his faith as he gave glory to God, 21 fully convinced that God was
able to do what He had promised.” Ideally, regardless of the
circumstances, how we feel, or events happening within our lives,
community or beyond, we remain firmly planted on the solid rock and
our eyes are fixed only on Him. However, there can be times when we
are wallowing in doubts versus remaining delighted in Him. This may be
due to challenges within our work, school, family, or community and/or
experiencing disappointments.
When doubt threatens our baseline behavior, there is a cascade of
negative results. It causes us to capitulate to fear and worry. In the
well-known story of Peter walking on the water (Matthew 14:28-31) the
moment he starts doubting he begins sinking. Doubt takes us far from
where we need to be. James 1:6 describes the one who doubt is like “a
wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.” And not only that,
James 1:7 issues a stern warning explaining “That person should not
expect to receive anything from the LORD.” Hebrews 10:38 describes how
the LORD views doubters for He “takes no pleasure in the one who
shrinks back.” Additionally, doubting robs us of our joy and peace.
It blinds us to the abundant evidence of the goodness of the LORD
within our own lives and the world in which we live. To avoid having a
baseline defined by doubt, there are several actions we can take.
First is ceasing trying to figure everything out - especially
when facing situations where solutions are convoluted or impossible.
This includes determining actions to take concerning a family member
who continually makes destructive choices, a strife filled marriage,
or a personal financial crisis. During such times our prayers seem to
go unanswered. Lacking certainty about what to do results in feeling
disheartened and exhausted and leads to doubting if the LORD can
and/or will do anything. This is circumvented by approaching the LORD
with childlike faith. We need to choose to replace the “when, how,
where, what and how” thinking related to the situation with pure and
unadulterated trust akin to how a young child looks to a parent in
meeting a need. Psalm 116:6 encourages us to have childlike faith by
reminding us “The LORD preserves the simple; I was brought low, and He
saved me.”
When harboring doubts, another action is choosing to focus on the
goodness and faithfulness of the LORD. Taking time to reflect on and
celebrate how He has answered prayers in the past pivots us from a
baseline of doubting to one of delight. Focusing on scriptures
reminding us of His goodness and faithfulness are also effective.
Psalm 145:9 tells us “The LORD is good to all; He has compassion on
all He has made.” Psalm 116:7 encourages us to “Return to your rest,
my soul, for the LORD has been good to you.” And, Hebrews 10:23
instructs us to “hold fast the confession of our hope without
wavering, for He who is promised is faithful.”
Remembering His love for us extinguishes doubts. The greatest
expression of His love is found in 1 John 4:9 “This is how God showed
His love among us: He Sent His one and only Son into the world that we
might live through Him.” Romans 8:38-39 assures us neither death,
life, spiritual forces, current or future events or powers, “nor
anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the
love of God.” Christ’s love described in Ephesians 3:19 as surpassing
knowledge and can fill us up to “all the fullness of God” thus leaving
no room for doubts to creep in.
Finally, praying is vital for combating doubt, as 2
Corinthians 10:4 teaches us the weapons of our warfare are “not of the
flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of strongholds.” An
initial action when doubts are encroaching is doing as the prophet
Samuel did when first hearing of troubling news he “prayed to the
LORD” (1 Samuel 8:6). Since Colossians 4:2 encourages us to “Continue
steadfastly in prayer”, we are to persistently lift up the specific
concerns and situations feeding our doubts. We can ask the LORD to
eradicate our doubt just as the father seeking Jesus’s help for his
demon possessed son requested “I do believe, help me overcome my
unbelief” (Mark 9:24)
Although Jesus warned us “in this world you will have trouble”
(John 16:33) our baseline can remain one of delight. That is because
doubt has no influence in our lives when it is overwhelmed by His
faithfulness, goodness and love.
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